Madonna’s Problems in Love and Adoption

It’s not easy being Madonna. First Guy Ritchie doesn’t let you bat him around with that fly swatter and then you realize that the 22-year-old that you’re dating just isn’t as mature as you thought he was. Huh. Yes, Madonna has broken it off with the man who could be her son, Jesus Luz because she wouldn’t meet him mom for Mother’s Day and he threw a hissy fit. This just goes to show how stupid he is. Luz had a pretty sweet deal being hooked up with Madonna and set up in her NYC crib. And because he’s taken not too long to show his true colors, it just goes to show how stupid she is. All that came out of that relationship was that she made herself appear to be the desperate old hag that she is. From Digital Spy,

“Madonna has split from Jesus Luz following a row over her lack of commitment, a report claims.

According to The Mirror, the 50-year-old popstar angered her Brazilian boyfriend by refusing to meet his family on May 10, which is Mother’s Day in his home country.

The argument apparently resulted in the singer deciding to call time on her relationship with 22-year-old Luz.

“It was a huge wakeup call for Madonna that Jesus really isn’t the man for her,” a source told the newspaper. “Things were moving too fast and they were practically living in each other’s pockets.

“Jesus felt so rejected when Madge was dragging her heels over the family meeting in Brazil. Mother’s Day is a big deal for him as it’s tradition for all of the Luz matriarchs to be celebrated, including his 37-year-old mother.”

I can see how it would be awkward to meet your boyfriend’s mother when you’re considerably older than she is. So that stupid relationship is over and I’m glad I don’t have to talk about it anymore. But Madonna’s biggest problems actually stem from her pending Malawian adoption, where she will file official papers next week. Madonna is reportedly having problems with the family of the girl, Mercy James, that she wants to adopt.

From the sounds of it, I don’t really understand why Madonna has to adopt this particular girl, as she has family that’s willing to take care of her. I know lots of people say that she’s doing a great thing, giving these kids a better life and that may be true, in the physical and material sense but taking these children away from their homes and family is not giving them a better life. David Banda still had a grandfather back in Malawi when Madonna adopted him in 2006 however, that controversy was over the fact that the Malawian government had bended the rules to make the adoption go through. This time, the girl’s family is actually saying that they don’t want her to go. From Contact Music,

“MADONNA is facing strong opposition over her bid to adopt a girl from Malawi – a leading childrens’ charity and the tot’s grandmother have condemned the singer’s plans to take home orphan MERCY JAMES.
The pop superstar has confirmed she will file adoption papers in a Malawi court next week (begs30Mar09) to legally adopt the four-year-old.
Mercy James has reportedly been removed from an orphanage and is in the care of a nanny at Kumbali Lodge, outside Lilongwe, where the singer has stayed on previous visits.
But Madonna has come under scrutiny from bosses at U.K.-based charity Save The Children, who claim it is best for a child to stay in their homeland surrounded by their extended family.
A representative for the charity says, “For the most part so-called orphans in poor countries tend to have family still available to them, if not actually a parent still living.
“It is vital, we say, that children should not be taken abroad to be looked after but should be cared for in their own environment by their own community, ideally by their own family, particularly their extended family.
“You cannot literally take every poor child who may only have one parent living, or no parent living, across the world and transport them all into Kensington in London. It’s not a solution.”
The charity’s appeal to the star comes on the same day the child’s grandmother has hit out at Madonna for her bid to adopt Mercy James – accusing her of “stealing” the youngster from her biological family.
Lucy Chekechiwa, 61, tells Britain’s The Sun newspaper, “Why doesn’t this singer pick other children? It is stealing. I want to go to court, I won’t let her go.”
Chekechiwa insists the child is supposed to return to her care when she turns six, and that orphanage officials have reneged on their “initial agreement”.
She adds, “They told me when I visited her last month that they want to find a better education and home for Mercy. But I am sticking to the initial agreement that Mercy will return home to me after she reaches six years old.”

Madonna will end up getting this child because she is Madonna and to be honest, I think it’s sickening. There are plenty of other children that she could adopt, and there certainly have to be plenty of other children in Malawi if she’s so hell-bent on adopting from there, that don’t have family to take care of them that it’s completely unnecessary to take those who do have biological family that wants so badly to take care of them.

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